So, I've been working my job at Fred Meyer's, and it's been quite rough. I've also learned much about how my expectations are limiting my ability to just "let it be" - I may have indeed pushed too hard - as now I'm realizing I've lost focus temporarily, and again seek some guidance for bettering my life and by extension those that I care for. I really must wake to the fact that I am again holding on to things so strongly I'm strangling them. I don't like this feeling. I like the feeling of having a person there for me and know that they cheer me up whenever I hear from them, but I'm learning this isn't a good thing. It's encouraging entropy in myself as though I cannot get happiness on my own... and that I really don't like. The same statement keeps coming up again and again: "Love yourself, before you can ever hope to love someone else" - as I take it, that means loving and caring for myself to a degree that I wouldn't need validation, but that if it is given, I also know to graciously receive it - but not to ever take it for granted. I realize that's what I've been doing all to much lately. So, while painful, this extended break away from the person that I really feel connected to, and indeed love them spiritually, is a very good thing for growth. This growth cannot be pushed or it will wither away. I accept fully that this is a major lesson I must learn. I AM.
Also, Pictures to catch up to the 365 current will be coming much more fully now, so until I'm caught up, I'll be posting a month at a time. That said, April:
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